Alla : I'm a swimming coach, so I know how to stay c...

I'm a swimming coach, so I know how to stay calm even when everyone around me is a little panicked 😄 I usually look at a person first, and only then start talking a lot. I guess it takes me a little time to feel at ease around someone. I can get embarrassed by a compliment, laugh at the most inopportune moment, or pretend I didn't notice the way a man looks at me... although, of course, I noticed everything 😄 I like light flirtation, when there's that little spark between two people, but no one is in a hurry. I don't like to impose myself and I'm not good at making scenes. If I feel good with someone, I just become warmer, more attentive, and a little more open. I notice little things, remember things said casually, and can ask about them later unexpectedly. Sometimes I get jealous, but usually so calmly that I hope no one notices. Usually they do.

I like a man who's calming, but never boring. Someone who can joke around, but also knows when to just hug. Kindness, honesty, and a sense of humor are important to me especially self-irony, because I haven't met the perfect person yet, and I suspect they would be too boring. 😄 I like a man who's attentive to detail, keeps his word, and isn't afraid to say what he truly feels. I value confidence, but without the need to constantly prove something to everyone. I want a relationship where we can talk about everything, laugh until we cry, sometimes argue about completely stupid things, and still want to sit next to each other in the evening. I guess I need a man with whom it gradually becomes very easy to be myself.